Life lies in love without distraction

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[Inscription (excerpt)] Boarding and seated, there was a thin old lady next to her, playing poker games on the ipad attentively, taking off, she fell asleep by the porthole. Blocked my sunrise.

The flight attendant delivered a drink. She woke up and said softly, "Tomato juice, a little bit of ice." I told her that I also ordered a copy. She squeezed, and whispered: "This tomato juice is not too sweet, and this snack biscuit is too sugar." I naturally nodded and said yes, and praised her for being nutritious. She said, "It is good to be attentive in everything. This is my 96-year-old experience." I was taken aback. The old lady looked like she was in her 70s, and she couldn't describe her spirits, but she was calm and tidy. It turned out to be 96 years old.

She said that she was traveling alone and had to transit to spend Christmas at the location of her 68-year-old son.

Encountering such a legend, my mind was fully activated, my ability to chat soared, and I quickly wanted to construct a complete life in the remaining forty minutes.

"Do you live by yourself? Do you have children by your side"? ——What a Chinese problem. She replied, "There is a son nearby, haha, but he is also 72 years old. I live in my own house and drive by myself. I bought a new car last year, Lincoln MKC. I want to make sure that my car has the utmost safety. I have a PC, a Mac, an iPhone, an ipad, and it’s very convenient to play cards." She said that she had been a teacher for a lifetime, retired thirty years ago, and has been working until now: teaching people to play bridge. There are adult education centers, at home, and community activity offices, all of which are opening classes. He often goes out to participate in entertaining competitions and gathers with players from all over the world.

Seeing my surprised look, she probably understood what I meant and made a surprised expression. She said, "I tend to forget my age; because I almost never think about it. Sometimes I think I'm still 25 years old. Oh, I went to the store to buy clothes, and I didn’t look like 25 when I put them on. Well, that’s a problem with the clothes, not with me.”

I praised her for being too young. She said: "Do you know why many elderly people are degrading rapidly? Because they don't have to do anything by themselves. Someone will bring them food to their eyes, clean up the room, and adjust the entertainment program at any time, even Give them a bath. What brain power, physical power, muscle? Nothing is needed, so they will naturally degenerate." What's more frightening is that they lose control of their lives; people who lose control of themselves are depressed, so they will complain, such as the soup is too hot, such as the TV sound is too loud, such as the elevator is too slow... The question is, where can you go when the elevator is coming? .......

The old lady said that she was a Jew, the youngest of the four children, and grew up free and unrestrained. Enlisted in the US Army in World War II, dispatched to Berlin and Munich, and traveled with General Eisenhower. "But as Jews, just like you Asians, the inherent emphasis on education and positive orientation will not be biased."

"Is there a longevity gene?" "My family basically died prematurely, or their health is very poor when they grow older. I think that during the years in the military, the training, regular life, and self-discipline engraved into the blood , Is the secret of longevity that will be useful for my life."

As the plane descended, my eardrums started to hurt. She didn’t change her face and still said slowly. I asked her if she would like her family in normal times. She said, “I’m here to visit my children and grandchildren and rent a villa by the sea. Come to attract children and grandchildren to play, without the temptation of a sea view house, how can they be interested in coming and going"? She said and laughed. "Don't you live in your son's house"? Another very Chinese problem. She said, "I lived there for three months. I never live with my son. It is unscientific for my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to spend more than one dinner under one roof. I can't put my son in between. His wife should Is his most important woman."

I listened to these insights with great admiration.

When taking off, she blocked my sunrise; when landing, she opened up a world to me.

How about going to work from nine to five attentively, and buying a car and a house?

I quit my job all my heart and go wandering, what if the South Pole reaches the North Pole?

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